My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 3 years. We are both mature people, and are serious about our relationship. He has met my family and i have met his as well. However, we both have financial problems. When i need help, he would always help me. When he needed help i also helped him. When he can drive me to school he would. After half a year of dating, he has got into trouble financially. Over the past years i have lent him over $4000. He hasn't paid be back yet because he has other debts to settle still. ( i go to college and work part time) Recently when he was driving me to school, he got into a car accident. ( Canadian weather) He needs to pay for the other lady's damage and her car rental fees. We are not going through insurance for this.
Now its getting really bad. I don't seem to care about him as much. When he gets jealous, i don't bother to explain, when hes mad i don't try to cheer him up. i just don't give a shit, it not that i don't want to, I'm just starting to notice that I'm slowly drifting. This is obviously not what i want. I've been with him for so long, i love him. . wait do I really?
I've been dating the same man since high school started. it has been about 6 years now. Nothing major has happened between us, but why am i thinking about breaking up? is it because nothing major happened so i find it boring? or am i loosing feelings? well whatever it is, it's making me go crazy. I find myself questioning about us these days. Maybe a break would be okay. Just a little break to let us realize how important we are to each other.