My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 3 years. We are both mature people, and are serious about our relationship. He has met my family and i have met his as well. However, we both have financial problems. When i need help, he would always help me. When he needed help i also helped him. When he can drive me to school he would. After half a year of dating, he has got into trouble financially. Over the past years i have lent him over $4000. He hasn't paid be back yet because he has other debts to settle still. ( i go to college and work part time) Recently when he was driving me to school, he got into a car accident. ( Canadian weather)  He needs to pay for the other lady's damage and her car rental fees. We are not going through insurance for this.

Should i take the blame for it?

Should i be paying part of it?

Is it even my fault that this happened?

finally things being settled down

I've been dating the same man since high school started. it has been about 6 years now. Nothing major has happened between us, but why am i thinking about breaking up? is it because nothing major happened so i find it boring? or am i loosing feelings? well whatever it is, it's making me go crazy. I find myself questioning about us these days. Maybe a break would be okay. Just a little break to let us realize how important we are to each other.